You have been miserable since the breakup and to make matters worse, you receive the news that your ex-girlfriend has moved on and is dating someone else. You think about all the things you went through to get her back and the fact that you couldn’t make it happen when you succumb to depression. Now, I tell you to don’t let this get under your skin. It is still possible to get her back.
You may have a very negative mindset right now, although that is normal, you need to stop and look at things at a more positive light. It is still possible to get her back even when she has someone new.
Most women are very vulnerable right after a breakup and will often take any person who first shows care or interest leading to a rebound relationship. This kind of relationship doesn’t generally last long so you don’t need to lose hope.
The initial thing to keep in mind if you want your ex-girlfriend back is that every chance you get to talk or be with her is an opportunity to show her passively why she deserves to be with you more than anybody else.
Here are a few tips you should consider to get her back when she has moved on and seen someone else:
1. It is now time to stop giving her too much space.
She has moved on now and that may mean you have given her too much space to explore the idea that you won’t be around anymore. It is time to make an effort to be part of her life again even as a friend. Inviting her for a coffee or a party with your mutual friends is a good way to see her without putting too much pressure on both of you.
2. Don’t show any sign of anger or frustration when you see your ex-girlfriend with someone new.
There will always be that uncomfortable feeling but showing it can ruin your chances of getting her back. So act natural, listen to what they have to say, and don’t make any judgmental comment about them.
3. Take your time and don’t force anything to get her back.
Let her see that you are also busy with your life. If she decides to be friends with you then accept it wholeheartedly. This isn’t a bad sign and this just means that you have a connection which is a good thing. This is not permanent but you have to always remember to never force the issue. Just make sure that you are always there for her as a friend in case something does happen to their relationship.
4. Assess where your friendship is with her every time you get a chance.
Don’t remind her about getting back together or how miserable you are without her. Is she feels your desperation; this can ruin your chances permanently. Instead, be a supportive friend to her so that she finds comfort in you without having to feel awkward or anything like that.
5. Take this time of separation to improve yourself in all aspects.
Not only with impressing her in mind but improving yourself as a whole.
Don’t give up yet if you really love her. There is always hope and you can make an effort to get your ex girlfriend back even when she has moved on.